Monday, August 23, 2010

A Little Light Kink

Posted by The Cuntessa at 9:52 AM Labels: , , ,
lightkink


My girlfriend S. was on an amazing first date last night. He was hot, he was employed, and the night looked as if it was headed for some first-date-fuckery.

While having after-dinner drinks at the Chateau, he leaned in and whispered "What are you into?" She assumed he meant sex and not tennis or hiking or some hobby shit like that so my somewhat sexually conservative friend answered, "You know, the usual stuff, but I'm open. What are you into?"

"A little light kink," he said. "Oh really? Like what?"

"Fisting."

S. didn't stick around to find out whether he meant he wanted to be the fister or the fistee, but as she told me her heartbroken hungover story I had to wonder, is fisting really considered "light kink?"

I'm all for some spankings, some handcuffs and some nipple clamps if we want to talk about lighter fare, but when an entire fist is up your butt, I'd say that's about as light as Kelly Clarkson after a breakup.

What's your definition of light vs. heavy kink? And is a fister a deal-breaker?

3 comments:

  1. I doubt he meant fisting her ass...but I would say that's a pretty bold question/statement for a first date either way.

    Ass fisting is definitely heavy on the kink side...Having your hand in the other side not so much...Admittedly I have only gotten the 4 knuckles in there, never an actual fist...So maybe the wrist deep would have to go into the heavy kink category.
    ReplyDelete
  2. Yeah, fisting would definitely not be my idea of "light kink" - I'll stick to vibrating cock rings, spanking and other toys.
    ReplyDelete
  3. That’s a little too heavy to be deemed “light kink” to me… tbh I can’t understand how it would really be a turn on for either party, but each to their own! :)
    ReplyDelete

Subscribe to: Post Comments (Atom)